What should I do for the dead?
Defined dogma
Pray for them. The simplest and most effective things you can do:
- Have Masses offered for them — especially the Gregorian series of thirty consecutive Masses, if possible.
- Pray the Rosary, the De Profundis, or the Requiem aeternam for them daily.
- Offer your daily sufferings, work, and sacrifices for their intentions.
- Gain indulgences and apply them to the faithful departed.
- Give alms to the poor in their name.
- Visit a cemetery and pray for the departed, especially in November.
- Consider making the Heroic Act of Charity — a voluntary offering to God, for the souls in Purgatory, of the satisfactory value of one's good works and the indulgences one may gain.
- Do not forget the "most abandoned souls" — those who have no one to pray for them.
Private revelation What the saints and mystics add
The Mass first; then prayer, alms, works of mercy, indulgences — and the traps.
Accounts that bear on this
- FAU-02St Faustina: §21: Sister Henry asks for one Mass and three ejaculatory prayers; on the third day she returns: "May God repay you"
- MED-76Vincent Ferrer: St Vincent Ferrer's sister, in flames at his Mass, asks about thirty Masses; centuries are reduced to thirty days …
- VIS-R1The Portuguese visionary: The angel on suffrages: daily Mass with the Memento, the Rosary and the Stations are the three great means; fasting …
- SIM-R6Maria Simma: Helps: the Mass first, attended and offered, effective in proportion to the soul's love of the Mass in life; the …